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DOVE ALWAYS NEEDS:

Looking back through the DoveTale from days past, the February 9, 1973 issue had this little article


DOVE ALWAYS NEEDS:
... children's clothing
... good furniture
... volunteers
... $ to meet expenses


Yep, 3 of the 4 - still a need today in 2017.


(The good furniture, we'd refer you to Central Illinois Christians in Mission to donate to and when we need furniture, we check with them first.)

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